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View Article  Life goes on

Well, it's almost three weeks to the day since Kiera passed away and although they say time is a healer, it's a slow process! Obviously not a day (or an hour) passes without one of us thinking of K. We've been inundated with cards and messages of support and sympathy and they have been a great source of comfort to us both. So many people have made donations to The Shooting Star House, we know of at least £1000 being raised, including a cheque from my colleagues at BBC World Service for over £700; Hannah and her friends had a toy sale and raised £35.55, so thank you to them and also to you for raising the money in memory of our lovely daughter. All the cheques and cash that were sent in cards to us has been passed to the House.

Ann and I have had a few days away here and there and we've also set about the task of clearing away Kiera's belongings. We're re-decorating her room which seems such a sad thing to be doing but we feel that if we left it longer it would be harder to do.

We are planning to go to Spain in September for a week and then France for a few days. So many people have been so generous in offering us apartments in sunny places, we really are spoilt for choice. Thank you!

I think that this will be the "last post" of this blog. It's been a real emtional roller coaster, there have been highs and there have certainly been lows, but through it all, Kiera, Ann and I have always known that we've had so much support, friendship and love behind us. It's heart breaking that it ended as it did, but we are truly grateful for everything that you have done to help us through the last 18 months. I would also like to pay a tribute to Ann, who gave up so much so that she could be there for Kiera. Nothing was too much for her and Kiera could not have had a better mother, nurse and companion, and I a better wife.

We thank you all so much!

Jeff & Ann

View Article  An emotional day

The sun shone and we were surrounded by so many friends and family as we gathered to say goodbye to our lovely little girl. Ann and I would like to thank everyone who supported us through Kiera's illness and through the last few days. We have had so many messages on e-mail, text, blog and cards, not just comforting us, but telling us how Kiera had affected each of you. We both thank you from the bottom of our hearts and know that our little girl is in a place where there is no pain, sorrow or distress.

Many people asked about the passage I read in the chapel. Here it is:

 

You can shed tears that she is gone

Or you can smile because she has lived

 

You can close your eyes and pray that she will come back

Or you can open your eyes and see all that she has left

 

Your heart can be empty because you can't see her

Or you can be full of the love that you shared

 

You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday

Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday

 

You can remember her and only that she is gone

Or you can cherish her memory and let it live on

 

You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back

Or you can do what she would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

 

written by

David Harkins

 

View Article  Kiera's Funeral
Kiera's funeral will take place at Mortlake Crematorium (TW9 4EN) on Friday 3rd August at 16.30 and then afterwards at The Tide End Cottage (TW11 9NN) in Teddington. We haven't got time to send out invitations to everyone, but we would like to see you there if possible. Children and Kiera's friends are of course welcome to both. Please try not to wear black! If you wish to send flowers, please address them to FW Paine, 29 Coombe Road, Norbiton, Surrey KT2 7AY to arrive before mid day on Friday, or you may wish to make a donation to The Shooting Star Hospice.