The sun shone and we were surrounded by so many friends and family as we gathered to say goodbye to our lovely little girl. Ann and I would like to thank everyone who supported us through Kiera's illness and through the last few days. We have had so many messages on e-mail, text, blog and cards, not just comforting us, but telling us how Kiera had affected each of you. We both thank you from the bottom of our hearts and know that our little girl is in a place where there is no pain, sorrow or distress.

Many people asked about the passage I read in the chapel. Here it is:

You can shed tears that she is gone

Or you can smile because she has lived

You can close your eyes and pray that she will come back

Or you can open your eyes and see all that she has left

Your heart can be empty because you can't see her

Or you can be full of the love that you shared

You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday

Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday

You can remember her and only that she is gone

Or you can cherish her memory and let it live on

You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back

Or you can do what she would want: smile, open your eyes, love and go on.

written by

David Harkins